Last updated on September 24, 2025, by Sierra Mayhew and Eliza Huber; features
I had no idea what to expect or what to wear when I first went to the New York ballet. I chose a sleek little dress with boots, the chic New York City look at the moment. I arrived at the theatre to find the event more formal than expected, yet being suited for dinner downtown. As a ballet attendee, I learned early on that evenings in precise tailoring and cocktail dresses are not for underdressing.
Lack of dress code promotion is a ballet flaw. Despite not receiving any rules with your ticket or invitation, the regulars seem to intuitively understand the unsaid norms upon arrival. This article was written to protect you from making my mistake, hence the disconnect. I will explain the ballet dress code and offer several costume ideas in the following area to help you choose the proper outfit the first time.
DO’S AND DON’Ts
What Not to Wear to the Ballet
Despite the lack of dress restrictions for many ballets, such as the New York City Ballet, some items are better for casual situations. First off, avoid wearing anything too athletic or sporty, like your Pilates outfit this morning. Definitely brunch after exercise. However, returning home to change out of your shoes and leggings before the ballet may be better.
Even in comfortable flip-flops or slippers, the ballet is not the best place to wear them. I advise against wearing loungewear, even high-quality. I would wear cashmere trousers 99 percent of the time. An evening at Lincoln Center would fall inside that 1%.
What to Wear to the Ballet
Again, the decision regarding what attire to wear to the ballet is entirely yours. I am able to provide you with a plethora of ideas and costume inspiration to assist you in creating the perfect ensemble for the stunning evening that lies ahead. From little black dresses and tailored suiting to bold splashes of color and skirt-and-sweater combos that have never failed us, continue scrolling to discover the style moment that is most appropriate for your upcoming ballet evening. Please bear in mind that two hours is an extended period of time to endure an uncomfortable position.
10 REGRET-PROOF OUTFITS TO WEAR TO THE BALLET
Little Black Dress (Very
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A short LBD is suitable for a variety of events, and the ballet is undoubtedly one of them. This timeless silhouette is ideal for a Saturday night performance, followed by a late-night dinner and beverages, when paired with strappy heels or knee-high boots.
SEROYA
Selene Mini Dress
H&M
Slingback Pumps
Something Chic to Slip Into
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Slip dresses are quite adaptable because they look nice and respectable yet feel as comfortable as pajamas (which they are). For your next night at the ballet, wear some nice, fitting boots and tie a warm cashmere knit around your waist. You can take it off when the air conditioning gets too cold.
SHONA JOY
La Lune Bias Cowl Midi Dress
J.CREW
Cashmere Classic-Fit Crewneck Sweater
Classic Suit With a Twist
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A basic black suit is a great choice for obvious reasons. To make it more interesting, wear only a bra or bra top underneath and switch out your daytime loafers for a pair of tall shoes. The outfit will look fantastic in photos outside of the beautiful opera house where you’re viewing a show, and it will also be comfy and relaxed.
MANGO
Straight Blazer With Flap Pockets
SIMONE PERELE
Karma Underwire Lace Demi Bra
Tweed Time
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You can see that a traditional tweed jacket with a white tee, split-hem leggings, and some nice accessories is a quick and easy way to look amazing the next time you get tickets to Swan Lake.
ENGLISH FACTORY
Windowpane Tweed Jacket
NORMA
KAMALISpat Leggings
A Timeless Tube
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Tube dresses are becoming very fashionable right now, thanks to the S/S 23 runways. And what better place to show off your new ballet than the ballet?
REFORMATION
Ryden Knit Dress
NORDSTROM
Lexxy Pointed Toe Pump
Dressed-Up Jeans
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As I mentioned, it’s perfectly OK to wear jeans to the ballet, particularly if it’s a daylight performance. Since I wore them on a Sunday afternoon and was appropriately attired for the event, I would know. My only recommendation would be to use a darker wash and accessorize them with a sleek, timeless top and eye-catching accessories and shoes.
ARITZIA
Rib Boatneck Longsleeve
’90s Jeans
AGOLDE
A Pop of Color
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When in doubt, take a cue from Carrie Bradshaw and use strong colors. A bright, colorful clothing isn’t always appropriate for a beautiful event, after all. Use this to your advantage.
NORMA KAMALI
Diana Gown
TONY BIANCO
Georgie Pump
The Tried-and-True Sweater-and-Skirt Combo
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Even while midi skirts and sweaters are strong separately, they work in unison to create an irresistible force. These two items combined are a certain way to look stunning on your next ballet date because they are cosy, warm, and unquestionably stylish.
Oversized Wool Sweater
H&M
FAVORITE DAUGHTER
The Favorite Skirt
An All-in-One Piece
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Simply said, stylish jumpsuits do not receive the recognition they merit. One-pieces are a popular substitute for dresses since they are simple to put on and almost always look great. especially if you’re carrying a nice bag.
PISTOLA DENIM
Cannon Jumpsuit
THE DROP
Addison Soft Volume Top Handle Bag
Always a Sweaterdress
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I normally wear a sweaterdress with boots and a shoulder bag for a night out or a work event. Due to their comfort and elegance, they are perfect for any event, including the ballet.
ZARA
Slouchy Knee-High Heeled Leather Boots
FAQS
Is there a dress code for all ballets?
Not really. Most performances call for a polished, semi-formal look, however this can change depending on the time of day and the place. A Saturday night show at Lincoln Center normally calls for something more formal, whereas a Sunday matinee at a smaller theatre could feel more comfortable. If you’re not sure, it’s always best to be a little overdressed. You’ll fit right in.
Is it okay to wear jeans to the ballet?
Yes, you may do that. Just make sure to dress them up a little. We would stay away from damaged and baggy shapes and instead choose tailored, slim-fit, and deeper hues. Jeans could be the perfect outfit for a noon show if you add the correct heels and jewellery.
What type of shoes should I put on?
If this is the only thing on your calendar for the night and you plan to drive or take a taxi, go ahead and wear your favourite heels. Don’t worry about how they feel. You’ll be sitting down most of the time, so it’s a wonderful chance to show off your best pieces. If you plan to walk there and then stop for dinner or dancing on the way home, I’d choose a more comfortable heel or even a stylish pair of flats.
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